You know where you want to go.
Coaching with a clinically-trained specialist is the fastest way to get there.
One-on-one coaching means:
After some sessions with Val I feel unstuck and understand a lot of the patterns that I inherited. I feel so much love and support from her. It has been amazing for me since meeting Valerie.
C.M.
Sousse, Tunisia
After meeting just one time with Valerie and appreciating so much her humor, her lightness, her making us feel as though everyone has issues like this, I walked away from that one hour session and felt a whole lot more connected to my husband. -Irene
What I really liked was that Valerie gets you straight to the point.-Hursey
Irene and Hursey Baker
Oakland, California
It was incredible, it was definitely a game changer. A lot of just really practical, concrete, hands on advice about how we can build a foundation for love to last.
Jeronimo Calderon
Costa Rica
"Growing up, no one ever taught us the tools that keep each other happy."
"Valerie's methods are insanely practical and simple and they work but only if you use them. We were desperate and knew we had to change. Her presence is for real, her advice cuts through the crap, and she gave us clear directions to get out of the mess we were in. 6 months later we have made new habits and are happy. "
C.J. & M.R.
San Francisco
"I was ready to start an affair."
"I was SO. FED. UP. in my marriage of 6 years. After 10 sessions with Val I started an affair...but with my wife instead. We are in love again. Thank you Valerie!"
J.K.
Mumbai, India
“My husband and I had a great experience working with Valerie as our couples coach.”
Paige Markham
“I am so grateful to Valerie for all of the help that she provided in couples therapy and also individually. She has this amazing ability to have empathy for what you’re going through, while also coaching you, making sure to keep you on track and give you the tools to work through challenges. She comes to meetings prepared, having thought through what we needs to be addressed in order to help you heal. She is quick to see where your communication and relational skills can be improved and models ways to make the changes needed to be in a better place individually and with your partner. It’s a safe place where you can share what you need to without fear of judgement, speak your truth and her ability to let you know you are not alone is healing in itself. Valerie helped to improve my communication skills, my ability to be patient and come from a place of understanding, with others and with myself. I cannot recommend Valerie enough. Hands down the best therapist I have had the experience of working with. She genuinely cares and will do what she can to help you on your journey.”
myCirca
"Again, thanks for all your creative, tech,and hard work on my behalf!"
VK
Maybe it's time for coaching.
You’ll find me to be far more direct.
We won’t meander, I promise.
I take multiple sides.
Couples are complex. Each partner has their own perspective.
I give you tools.
You’ll love how well they work!
I check in on your homework.
It takes a few minutes, and you’ll be pleased with the results.
I check in with you between sessions.
A quick email exchange keeps you both accountable.
You’ll get in, get results, get out.
I believe you can stop fighting in five hours.
Do you need extra privacy and more free time? My virtual office gives you:
No traffic or parking hassles and more ease in your schedule.
No awkward moments running into colleagues in my virtual waiting room.
No one in your gossipy community will ever see you coming to my virtual office.
YOU'VE FOUND THE RIGHT COACH IF YOU ARE...
Serious about getting unstuck but don’t know how.
I have a roadmap just for your couple. It’s tailored from decades of helping couples to stop fighting.
Ready to try new skills in order to get better results.
No matter how bitter you’ve been, you’ll be happy to see how conflict stops for good.
Nostalgic for your past happiness and aware of the golden potential you still share.
I’m good at tapping that emotional reservoir of past good times. We’ll leverage those peak experiences into creating your happier future.
Hesitant to sign up because your partner is stubborn and resistant.
Come solo to the first session. I’ll share two tricks that get partners on board.
You have found your coach!
Different needs, different options.
Pricing Plans
Single Session $220.
Don't berate! Communicate!
1 hour plus homework and 1 followup email
Get a teamwork mindset.
Hear an expert's opinion on how each partner needs to change.
Communicate effectively and hear what your partner is trying to tell you.
Package of Five Sessions $1000.
Enjoy less nagging and more shagging!
5 hours, 5 assignments and 5 checking in emails
Get a teamwork mindset
Hear an expert's opinion on how each partner needs to change.
Discover 4 methods to laser focus your communication and decode what your partner is saying.
Enjoy 4 skills that guarantee no more shouting matches.
Use 3 tools to negotiate a win-win
Master 2 methods to switch your fizzle back into sizzle.